Okay this genuinely reframed how I've been thinking about it. I was optimizing the wrong end the whole time. Out of curiosity, what finally made it click for you?
Adding a data point: I've run this for two years and it's held up through a job change and a move, which is the real test. The trick was making it small enough that it never felt optional. How small did you start?
Cole Vale· 1 week ago
The silence-after-stating-your-position move is so real and so uncomfortable. Worked for me too, terrifying every time though.
Elena Ruiz· 1 week ago
Good question. Honestly yes, with one big caveat: it only worked once I stopped half-doing it. Full commitment was the actual unlock.
Okay this genuinely reframed how I've been thinking about it. I was optimizing the wrong end the whole time. Out of curiosity, what finally made it click for you?
Adding a data point: I've run this for two years and it's held up through a job change and a move, which is the real test. The trick was making it small enough that it never felt optional. How small did you start?
The silence-after-stating-your-position move is so real and so uncomfortable. Worked for me too, terrifying every time though.
Good question. Honestly yes, with one big caveat: it only worked once I stopped half-doing it. Full commitment was the actual unlock.